If you have a joined many adult social sites and can’t seem to find what you’re looking for, I really can’t say I blame you. after all, Facebook has set the bar really high when it comes to social networking, social media and other internet-based forms of social outreach.

This really is too bad because if you were to look at it from a slightly unconventional perspective, adult social sites do have all the ingredients for success. Lots of naked women? Check! Lots of horny guys? Check! Lots of localization? Check! It seems that everything is present but at the same time, it seems like it just doesn’t work together. It’s like going through a checklist of your recipe items when you’re baking a cake and making sure that you have everything in the right measure. You can mix everything according to instructions, and regardless of how you try the cake still doesn’t live up to your expectations.

What happened? Well, the fact is you’ve been eating at a really good bakery. You let your expectations be shaped by how awesome the quality of the food produced by the bakery is. The same goes with adult sex sites. If Facebook is going to be your measurement of success, then you’re essentially just setting yourself up for disappointment. The truth is Facebook goes beyond a mere website. It’s a platform.